Yesterday, on the 366th and final day of 2016, I spent a few hours re-reading my blog entries over the past year. It’s hard to believe that this 366 Days of Self-Care Challenge has finally come to an end. To say the least, the year has been full of challenges, surprises, losses, and celebrations.
Start here to read from Day 1.
It certainly didn’t play out the way I envisioned, but that’s one of the reasons it was so rewarding.
It’s also why “openness” is one of my core desired feelings going into 2017. Surprisingly, being forced out of my comfort zone this past year has felt really good. For someone who has always been a planner (and a control freak, if you ask my close family and friends), it was liberating and exciting to sit with my curiosity, wondering what might happen next.
At first, it was pretty easy to come up with self-care activities. I started with what I knew: manicures, pedicures, getting enough sleep, eating well. You know, the basics. But as time went on it became more challenging to come up with new things to try. And it was even more challenging to carve out time to blog consistently about it every day (not to mention snap a photo).
There were times when I wanted to quit, to move onto something else–the next shiny idea or project. But I honored my commitment to myself because I knew it was important.
Thankfully, I just made a few adjustments and pushed forward.
Early on, I started to notice some patterns emerging. Many of my activities involved books–journaling, reading, writing. And I read A LOT of books last year (67 to be exact, up from 58 in 2015). For me, it doesn’t get much better than reading in solitude, even if it’s just for 15 minutes. In fact, most of my self-care activities were solo adventures. I relish my quiet time. It’s not a luxury; it’s a requirement for my basic functioning.
I also spent a lot of time outside. I made several visits to the ocean, floated the Deschutes river, went for walks in the woods, did some snowshoeing, and spent a lot of time gardening. I explored eleven US cities and traveled to Ambergris Caye, Belize.
Looking back on the experience, I wouldn’t change a thing. There isn’t much I could have done to better prepare myself for the journey ahead anyway. Without a doubt, I learned more about myself in 2016 than any other year of my life. Now, after a year of deep self-exploration, I’m ready to enter 2017 with a clearer understanding of what truly restores me.
This journey has helped me develop a meaningful self-care practice–one that consistently refills my cup and leaves me better suited to love and care for others.
Are you ready to develop your own self-care practice?Yes, please.