“You’ll remember it differently.” That’s what my therapist said to me while I sobbed hysterically from her couch. I didn’t believe her. At the time I was struggling to accept just how broken my marriage was, and my crying spells were so frequent and so violent that I was certain I’d ruptured a vital organ, […]
This is the year. This is your moment to do things differently. Getting a head start on your new year planning sets the stage for your entire year. It helps you stay focused on what’s most important and avoid distractions that keep you from making steady progress toward your goals. Here are 5 tips for […]
Have you ever pulled the plug on a relationship without warning or explanation? I have. Well, at least that was my intention. While dating a guy in my early twenties, I had the sudden realization in the middle of the night that we weren’t a good fit, and that I needed to end the relationship. […]
Yesterday, I counted 2,273 dead fish on North Clearwater Beach. Three days ago, I counted 1,854. And two days before that I counted 4,112. Red tide is taking quite the toll on marine life in the area. And for the record I did, indeed, count every one of those fish. The numbers noted above were […]
Please tell me I’m not the only one who’s experienced this: you’re driving along thinking about cream cheese, or some other random thing, when suddenly a song comes on the radio that grips your heart so tightly you nearly veer off the road wondering what the hell just happened. Road tunes can take us places, […]
What is living upp exactly? For starters, it’s knowing how to invest your time and energy so you can bounce back from life’s heavy moments and live up to your highest potential. Living upp is about expansion, and it involves reclaiming your joy and independence regardless of your life circumstances. It helps you slam the […]
At 1:19 a.m. I awoke to voices outside the van. “A black Mercedes,” said a man with a southern accent. A woman mumbled something back to him that I couldn’t quite make out. When my eyes finally opened I was immediately blinded by two flashlights beaming in through the windows. Thankfully, I’d attached the magnetic window […]
I haven’t only been sitting around listening to Air Supply. I’ve done some other stuff, too. I’ve been making the rounds to some of my favorite places and spaces, like the spot near Lake Sammamish, where I went with the sole intention of seeing one of two bald eagles that live there. It just so […]
“How long have you been married, Bill?” asked the man in the ball cap. “Sixty-two years,” Bill replied. “To the same woman?!” the man in the hat asked as he chuckled and glanced over at the third man in the group. “Yeah, and nobody should ever be married that long,” Bill added, laughing. I laughed, […]
Van life certainly has taken some getting used to. For example, earlier this week while brushing my teeth in a State Park bathroom, I glanced down to see what appeared to be a sink full of underwear. And that was the moment I decided to stick to brushing my teeth in the van, which brings me […]