Self-Care Challenge (Day 95): Building a Support System

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On day 95 of my 366-day self-care challenge, I focused my attention on building a support system.

(If you don’t know what a Mastermind group is, Google it now.)

A friend and I recently began our own version of this entrepreneurial support system. She lives nearly 2,000 miles away, but our virtual connection makes it seem a lot closer.

We’ve collaborated on other projects in the past, so we already have a solid understanding of one other’s personal values and beliefs. In fact, we’ve known each other for nearly a decade and we haven’t really changed all that much. Our vision for the future has been pretty consistent over the years, though our map for getting there has deviated a little as we’ve evolved through our life experiences.

Mastermind groups typically consist of more than two people, which has its benefits — more information and feedback is exchanged. But the smaller-scale format is ideal for me at this stage of my business. Our Mastermind duo-ship feels a lot like having my own business coach. We spend time discussing our goals, sharing wisdom, helping one another solve problems, offering encouragement, asking insightful questions, and challenging one another to continue the journey…to keep pushing forward.

Creating this kind of support network does require a bit of effort. We must first identify the right people – those who not only support us, but also challenge us – and then establish a plan for connecting with them on a regular basis. For some, support networks include close friends and family members; others prefer to gain unique insights from strangers (think Meetup).

Whether you choose to meet with your Mastermind group on a weekly, monthly or quarterly basis is up to you. What’s most important is that you have a supportive community that provides the right mix of encouragement and accountability to help you reach your goals.

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